Thursday, July 7, 2011

Casey Anthony case-life is unjust

This week I decided to take a small break from blogging.  I have been posting and sharing on lots of grief sites lately and I was beginning to feel the hole calling to me.  I really feel it is part of my honoring DJ that I offer whatever help I can to others that have lost children and one way is going to many facebook sites and answering bereaved parent's questions and offering support.  I was helped along the way after DJ passed away and feel that we the bereaved parents need to pay it forward to others along this horrible path. 

Well, then the Casey Anthony case was everywhere on the news and here comes another blog.  As many of you know I do not watch the news anymore, I have had enough loss and drama in my life that I try very hard not to watch more tragedy on television-this murder case however could not be missed.

Synapsos-the mother was charged with murdering her little girl.  The evidence seemed so obvious to everyone in the word, in the media, and all the commentators that surely she would get a guilty verdict.  Well apparently there were many things that the jury heard and knew that made them give her a not guilty verdict.  This made so many parents across the nation and probably the world terribly angry.  But I think that the bereaved parents are angrier-Why? Well...

We had no choice over the loss of our child.  Our children died accidentally, or because of health reasons.  Some were murdered and taken away from their families, others took their own lives--so many ways to lose a child but the fact is that we the parents did not have the choice in the matter and by all apparent facts this mother did.  She got a non-guilty verdict and maybe some day the truth will come out-whether it was her or not it does not change the fact that a little girl is dead. 

So many people hurt their children, so many abuse their child and neglect them yet do not lose them to death.  So many parents chose to destroy their wonderful gifts from God--what we the bereaved would give to have our child back and these parents chose to destroy their children.  There is no justice in that.  We wanted our children, would want them back and others have done horrible things to their
children and yet they do lose them. 

This mother or someone murdered Casey Anthony, put duct tape over her mouth and dumped her body.  This is pure evil and someday God will certainly take justice for it.  Most of life is unjust, we live in a sinful, tough world and in the end God will take care of that injustice but for now -it is what it is. 

Bottom line---life is full of choices, I chose to love DJ every single day of his life and still do now.  You all have children and people in your lives that you can chose to love or not.  That is where the justice in the world starts, with our own choices of either loving one another honestly and sincerely or not.  If this woman had been loved would her child be alive? If she had known what sincere love was would Casey still be alive?  This is where the world's justice starts--love one another--it is God's commandment to us---why did He state it so strongly? Because life is unjust, life is hard and without love little girls like Casey lose their lives. 

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